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(11 People Likes) Would most women refuse to date an always single guy over 30 who, since he gets rejected so often, owns or has owned a Japanese-manufactured woman doll/robot at home as a subtitute girlfriend?
anyone about that crap again. Ever. For the rest of your life. Throw away your porn, and stop playing with yourself.
Second, you need to stop worrying about rejection, and staying single. Single is actually attractive to most women. Why would you think it isn’t? You think most girls are looking for a guy that screws every single woman in a 20 mile area, and ditches them to find someone else?
Believe it or not, but you are actually ‘supposed to be’ single when you ask a girl out. That’s not a negative. That’s a plus.
Third, and this will be the hardest to do, you need to stop thinking badly of yourself.
Women Realistic Sex Doll an smell the “I’m a loser stench” miles away. You walk up to a girl with this attitude of “I get rejected all the time, and I’ve been single for 25 years of my 30 year life, and I have girl-dolls to replace real women”…. that attitude if it is in your head, is going to bleed into your character and your manor, and the way you present yourself.
By merely having that view of yourself, you are going to cause the very rejection you are worried about. Women do not want that kind of guy. And here’s the kicker…. if you met a woman with that kind of attitude about herself, you would reject her.
No one wants to be around the “I’m Trash” club of the universe president.
You need to mentally dump that. You need to clean that crappy attitude out of your mind, and do so forever.
Now I don’t mean running around going “I AM JUST SO AWESOME!!!!!”… you don’t need that either. You don’t need to be arrogant.
You need to say “Hey, I’m not Captain Universe, and I’m not a movie star, or a sports star, or CEO of a major company, or elected to high office… but I am decent enough guy, and I’m not hooked on drugs, and I work a decent job… and I know I can be a loving husband.”
(now if you are hooked on drugs, or you are not working, you need to fix that).
But if you are, you need to stop the “loser-r-me” routine, and you can find someone.
I’m 40 years old. I’ve never had a girlfriend in my whole life. At 40…. a had a woman come up and ask me out on a date. Now granted I had no interest in her whatsoever, but the point is, you find someone.
You just have to clean out that crap out of your
(83 People Likes) What are your thoughts about child sex dolls? Designed to look and feel just like young girls, these are completely legal, sold online to customers across the globe. Child sex doll-makers claim that they ‘stop pedophiles committing crimes’.
But it’s wrong to compare sexual desire to drugs or other things.
Let’s be clear about this – someone can be a pedophile and not be a sex offender. It’s hard to remove the heat from the light with this situation. Pedophiles have a recognized mental condition. Perhaps they can keep it in check. Perhaps not. I think it’s an extremely difficult situation for society. Feelings and desires cannot be judged as right or wrong – they exist because they can. Pedophiles are not like rapists. Rape is a behavior. Pedophilia is a condition of sexually desiring prepubescent children. But pedophiles can no more control their feelings than heterosexuals or homosexuals.
But it’s not the feelings we judge – it’s the behavior. If someone is a pedophile, are they not compelled, to sooner or later, act on their desires? Are their desires as strong as that of homosexuals, who risk ridicule, beating and death to meet in dark alleys or restrooms or other secretive places to get what they must have? Are not heterosexuals ardent in their desire to copulate with members of the opposite sex and go to ridiculous lengths to achieve that goal? Isn’t the desire for sexual congress one of the most powerful forces in us?
But pedophiles have no outlet at all. There is no way they can satisfy their desires legally, morally or ethically. If you look at lobbying groups like NAMBLA who seek to decriminalize “consensual” sex with underage boys you will see the lengths they will go to in order to justify, rationalize, realize their desires. It’s sickening to look at their literature let alone think about what they are trying to accomplish. But they cannot help their feelings. They can only control their behaviors. And in my mind, that’s a losing battle. Sooner or later pedophiles MUST seek relief, real satisfaction for their desires, just as heterosexuals must, sooner or later, or at least do.
Pedophiles themselves are not bad people or guilty of anything. But their acting out their desires in real life, if left unchecked, is revolting and abhorrent. One could or would never trust their child to the most well-behaved, well-intentioned, moral pedophile. It might be ok this time, even next time, even 100 times – but how could you knowingly take that risk? It reminds me of the shark in the movie “Finding Nemo” that is trying to wean himself off fish as food. How long do you think he will be successful eating seaweed? It’s the same thing with pedophiles with sex dolls. How could you risk it?
That being said, I think child sex dolls are NOT a mechanism of relief for pedophiles. I think they are nothing more than an appetizer, a whet for their desires. Do I know this? No, I don’t. But I look over my own life of “normal” sexual desire and the lengths I would go to in order to meet a woman and I realize that sex is not like drugs. You can smoke pot and not become a heroin addict. But you can’t just look at porn and not want more with a real woman. I don’t think you can use sex toys and not want to go out and find the real thing. I think that the more these substitutes are used the more a pedophile must desire the real thing. I think these sex dolls are just starting the motor and the owner must someday go for that “drive” once it’s started.
I don’t know this. It’s an opinion. As a society we need to consider how to treat both chaste and offending pedophiles. We have seen over and over that sex offenders who get out of prison become recidivists. Even knowing what prison holds in store for them they are compelled to satisfy their desires. They have poor behavior and impulse control. What do we do with these people? Do we imprison offenders for life, knowing they will probably return to their ways if we let them out? We place all kinds of restrictions on them when they get out of jail – and it seems to fail to stop them. A 2004 study by Hanson and Morton-Bourgon indicated there is a 37 percent chance that sex offenders will repeat their actions withing 5 Sex Doll Torso ears of release from prison.
Are pedophiles a bomb waiting to go off? It is a case of “when” not “if” with them? I don’t think it’s fair to condemn them for their condition. But I could and never would condone their being around children, and I simply cannot believe that providing artificial stimulus through sex dolls is anything but tempting them and goading them to seek satisfaction in real children. For
(50 People Likes) Understanding the significance of sex doll porn
ly what you want here. To make your selection, consider how silicone female sex doll ou plan to use your doll.
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(99 People Likes) Would you get angry if your wife had a period accident all over you, as well as your mattress, while you two were asleep? I am a woman and I am worried about this.
college and we had gotten really close. It had been about 4 months since we had started dating and I stayed the night at her place.
That night, we spoke, laughed, watched a movie, had great sex and fell asleep holding each other. When I woke up, I noticed that she was lying on a puddle of urine, which by extension, I was also covered in. I woke up and looked around, taking stock of what was going on. My girlfriend woke up after my stirring disturbed her. She quickly realized what had happened and I saw the look on her face turn to absolute embarrassment. Now, I have always been more focused on ensuring that people are comfortable emotionally rather than focusing on my level of physical discomfort. I mean, physical discomfort lasts for a short while and is very temporary in effect. Emotional stress however, is much more damaging.
I immediately told her that I didn’t care at all. She was still very embarrassed. I told her no one would ever know what happened, and I honestly don’t mind. It happens, everyone fucks up and I would feel like an asshole if she had forever felt embarrassed for something that I could wash off me with a shower.
So, how angry would I get? Not at all! silicone female sex doll y Sex Doll ife and her happiness and comfort would be my utmost priority. Why would I prioritize something as ridiculous as getting some blood on me over the woman I love? We all make sacrifices for love, the only question you have to ask yourself is whether or not the sacrifice is worth making for the person.
In my past experience, it was definitely worth waking up in that bed, soaked with urine. It allowed me to express to her that I was ready to be comfortable with her. While still extremely excited and aroused by each other, we could begin to enjoy each others’ company in an all new light. That relationship
(74 People Likes) How do you find the right girl?
t product to the right market (i.e. put yourself in situations with the types of women you want to date)
Sell the product effectively (i.e. learn how to flirt, converse, and physically escalate interactions with the women you like.
Let’s dive into each of these briefly to give you a better idea of what I mean. silicone female sex doll 1. Developing the Ultimate “Product”
The first step in finding the right girl is becoming the right man.
Period.
Lots of guys try to skip this step by jumping into “game” and “pickup” (the proverbial marketing and sales).
And while this might work for getting a trial run (e.g. having sex or going on a date)… It’s not a viable long term strategy.
If you aren’t the right man, women will sense this after a few dates and they will quickly abandon ship.
You need to develop yourself into a man of substance and character who is capable of keeping your ideal woman BEFORE you set out to try and find her.
To get started, you must first ask yourself, “What kind of woman do I want to be with?”
Describe, in detail exactly who you want to date. What sort of character traits do they have? What do they look like? How do they spend their time? What are they like as a person?
Now flip the script and ask yourself, “What kind of man must I become to attract and keep a woman of this caliber”.
Because here’s the thing.
If you want to date an amazing woman, you need to be an amazing man. Period.
You can’t expect to date a beautiful gem of a girl who is always volunteering with underserved children, running a small online business, intelligent, athletic, well read, and kind if you’re overweight, lazy, and mean.
It just won’t happen.
Now, I can’t speak to the exact type of woman that you will want, but here are a few basics that should be applied NO MATTER what type of woman you want to be with:
Take care of your physical health. Lift weights 2–3 times a week, sprint every week, eat a clean diet, and drink lots of water
Have a MISSION and a purpose beyond women. It doesn’t matter if you want to end world hunger, build a 9-figure brand, release a best selling album, or travel to every country in the world, but you MUST have something that sets your soul on fire and motivates you every day. Passion is sexy and a man without a mission will never be able to keep a high caliber woman
Develop an interesting skillset. Learn to dance, box, play the guitar, paint, speak a new language… Whatever. I don’t know a single woman alive who isn’t attracted to a man of many skills and talents
Become a more masterful conversationalist (we’ll dive into that later). Learn how to tell jokes and stories. Understand body language. Learn to improve your communication skills because, at the end of the day, a relationship is ALL about communicating.
Remember, like attracts like. You might be able to b.s. your way into a few one night stands, but women are highly intuitive when it comes to a man’s character and they can quickly smell a fake.
Once you’ve developed yourself into the ideal product a.k.a the ideal man, you must learn to market yourself effectively to the women you desire.
This is comprised of two parts:
Presenting yourself well
Being in the right locations.
The first one is simple.
Take care of your appearance. Dress well. Take care of your body. Get a haircut. Put your best foot forward and ensure that first impressions are always rock solid.
The second part can be a little bit more challenging.
Lots of guys think that bars and clubs are the best places to meet women. They’re not.
You need to figure out where your ideal woman is going to spend her time and go to those places.
If you want a smart, nerdy, and cute girl… A bookstore or coffee shop is where you’ll want to start going. (or even comicon haha)
If you want a musician or an artist, then go to open mic nights or museums.
Join local meetups your ideal girlfriend would go to.
Build a social circle filled with like-minded people.
Go where the type of woman you want to be with will go.
In the same way that there are AMAZING products out there that no one has ever heard of, I know dozens of AMAZING men who would make the perfect boyfriend or husband but are still single because they never put themselves in the right locations to meet the women that they want.
If you’re single and have already done all of the internal work necessary to attract the right woman (i.e. you’ve become the right man) then I’d recommend that you spend less than 4 hours a day at home (when you’re not sleeping).
Hang out at coffee shops, go to meetups, go to museums, just go and live life and get out of the four walls you call home.
Because the woman you want isn’t waiting for you in your bedroom.
She’s out there in the real world.
3. Selling the Crap Out of Yourself for Love and Profit
Developing yourself and putting yourself in the right environments won’t do a damn thing unless you are able to effectively “sell” yourself.
What I mean when I say this is that you must learn how to communicate more effectively.
You can be the most amazing man in the world, but if you suck at conversations and don’t know how to effectively talk to women so that they REALIZE how amazing you are then you’ll be screwed.
Think about all of the amazing products out there that people know about but don’t buy.
I guarantee you there are at least 20–30 amazing purchases you could make right now that would dramatically improve your life, but you won’t do it because they company doesn’t know how to sell their product effectively.
They don’t know how to convey the right message to convince you that you should make a purchase.
It’s the same thing with dating.
Even if you’re the most amazing man in the world and you’re in the right locations, if you can’t sell yourself by being funny, having great conversations, and conveying status without acting needy, you’re not going to date the women you want.
Period.
So learn to sell yourself.
Read books like:
How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie
How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes
The Anti Pickup Line by Charlie Houpert
The Dating Playbook for Men (shameless self plug)
People Skills by Robert Boulton
Watch as many stand up comedies as you can and develop your sense of humor. Watch TEDx talks about becoming a better story teller.
Learn how to sell yourself through conversation and you will eventually find the right girl.
I hope th
